Evaluated

In the days we are living, there isn’t a clear order for the things we see, there’s no right or wrong, there’s no measure and no scale. Everything seems to be scrambled. We fight the desire of putting things straight in the line because things just don’t work the way they used to, and we feel miserable in the consequence of it. But although it feels a bit scary we should believe in a great compass, called “inner being”.  

The funny thing about this is that we mostly look into ourselves like we are tiny grains of sand, instead of realising we are pieces of a huge, universal puzzle. We try desperately to fit, to understand, to improve, to please, to figure, but what we do not see is that even those transformations are completely right. Everything is right, for the good and for the better, everything is just fine. We are having an intense alignment and learning those days, but truth is that there is nothing to be scared of. It will pass. We are changing already, but that change is happening like we are moving towards our real goal, like we are meant to be in this exactly place, of this exactly matter to fit a bigger purpose. 

See yourself as different, as unique. Understand that our characteristics become who we are. We are meant to fit one another for a bigger purpose and those changes are happening so we are able to align and become a marvelous “earth” puzzle. It might look as a mistake, a tragedy, something really bad happening, but in the reality we are experiencing a new opportunity to learn how to deal with the physics of this new real world. 

If it seems that sometimes we are wasting our love on others, try to understand that this is just the way they are processing and returning it to us. But it is never a waste of time. This is a real investment, and if we feel anger or resentment on others, understand that it will affect us only. 

When what we most desire is freedom, the possibility of choosing every single detail in our lives seems pointless when we try to impose our will or oppress other people only because we are convinced we know better. How come we seek for freedom if we are always trying to dominate and manipulate others through our wishes and thoughts?  

So instead of using our energy oppressing or trying to impose on others, let’s use our energy on ourselves. Use your energy to feel better, when we feel better, things work better for us. And for sure, nobody is more worthy of this amazing energy then ourselves. So certainly there’s no regret on it. 

On the same hand perceive other people’s processes. They are also intense, only different. Which means they are also learning, so we should be the hand we’d like to have, instead of just pushing on others. Remember that possibilities are immense. They are only waiting for our convictions and beliefs to be stronger than our fears. We might try to be the example we’d like to follow, even because complaints won’t solve anything. 

Our world is full of wonderful ideas and full of wonderful people wishing to become a part of a better world, but the reality is that most of us are still waiting to be evaluated and “pass” some kind of test, where the world “allows” to be oneself. We don’t need permission to make the change we want to see in our lives and our society. We should be the good people we want to see passing through us on the sidewalk, we should be the mirror of what we wish from the place we live in. 

The biggest proof of human cleverness is when we believe that real good can actually be achieved. You’ll never see a successful person telling you not to go ahead, or not to try your best. We become more intelligent when we believe moving forward is worth it. 

If we continue to consider real meaning of happiness we might perceive that there is no way we could actually be happy alone. It is more like we are in a bus. I might be using a headphone, but there’s a child screaming desperately for her mother to feed her. I can’t get enough satisfaction with my music if I hear a baby crying in the background. We are the same. I might be convinced that nobody’s pain will affect me, but the moment I feel the energy around me is not flowing that well, I will be affected. It might have nothing do with me, but the sorrow around will get to me, that’s how the law works. 

So the suggestion is to love and look after people around us like we’d like them to look after us. This way the energy will flow easier and we will have less distress during our journey. We must remember we are no victims of the caos and that our energy and love matter a great deal anywhere, anytime.